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6 THINGS YOU DO THAT DESTROYS YOUR RELATIONSHIP



To make a relationship work, you must be
willing to invest your time. You also need to
understand that some of your actions can
destroy the relationship you are trying to
build.
Here are 6 things you do that destroys your
relationship
1. YOU DON’T TAKE CARE OF
YOURSELF
Most people forget about their appearance
after getting into a serious relationship. This
attitude is wrong and can destroy your
relationship. You have to make an effort to
look nice for your partner.
2. YOU TAKE YOUR PARTNER FOR
GRANTED
You destroy your relationship when you stop
appreciating the qualities you love about your
partner. You take your partner for granted
when you do this. To maintain a happy
relationship, you should continue to prove
your love.
3. YOU CRITICIZE YOUR PARTNER
OFTEN
You destroy your relationship when you
criticize and pick upon your partner often.
Just because you feel you are better at
certain things than your partner is no reason
to criticize your partner.
4. YOU PUT YOURSELF AND YOUR
NEEDS FIRST
Neglecting your partner’s needs and always
putting yours first is another way you destroy
your relationship. To have a successful
relationship, you have to be willing to
compromise. The secret to having a
successful relationship is putting your
partner’s needs first.
5. YOU AVOID OPEN COMMUNICATION
When you avoid confronting your relationship
about an issue and keep it to yourself, the
unresolved issues will destroy your
relationship in future. Maintaining an open
communication in your relationship is
important if you want to have a successful
relationship.
6. REFUSING TO APOLOGIZE
Some people are just too proud to apologize
even when they are wrong and this attitude
destroys a relationship fast. You have to be
willing to accept your mistake and apologize
if you want a successful relationship.

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