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Has a guy suddenly disappeared after initially showing interest in wanting to date you? If that scenario seems to happen to you all the time, it could mean you are doing something that is scaring these men away from you. Below are 8 things you do that scare men away 1. YOU ARE TOO POSSESSIVE Being possessive can scare men away from you. When a man feels like he’s being restricted from doing the things he loves to do, he will quickly lose interest in the relationship and want out. 2. YOU TALK ABOUT MARRIAGE TOO SOON Bringing up discussions about marriage very early in a relationship isn’t something you should do as it makes you appear desperate. Get to know him first and gradually bring up the discussion later. 3. YOU ARE TOO JEALOUS Being too jealous will scare men away from you because it shows you are insecure. Men are attracted to confident and secure women. Stop getting jealous unnecessarily. 4. YOU FIGHT OVER IRRELEVANT THINGS Fighting over irrelevant things so soon in a relations...

A regional Non-Governmental Organisation has moved to the International Criminal Court seeking to file a case alleging impropriety in the case against Sudanese President Omar Al Bashir. The Pan African Forum through its chairman David Matsanga alleges that the Bashir case was not properly investigated and has documented alleged misconduct on the part the prosecution. Bashir, who is the only sitting head of state with ICC warrant of arrest, is charged as an indirect co-perpetrator, with 10 counts of crimes against humanity allegedly committed between 2003 and 2008 in the Darfur region. The first warrant for his arrest was issued on March 4, 2009, the second on July 12, 2010. None of the warrants have been enforced. An attempt by activists to have him arrested when he travelled to Kenya to attend the promulgation of the Constitution in August 2010 drew mixed reactions, but he eventually flew back home. Matsanga told Capital FM News that he has already sought leave of The Hague-based cour...

A Kenyan lady somewhere in the Europe sent a message to my inbox: “Hello Jackson, I know that many Kenyans out there are roasting girls over this issue of girls going out with guys old enough to be their fathers. It is also happening here in the diaspora. Worse still if the guy is white because they get insulted for going out with ancestors and so forth. I get offended by this as I’ve dated two very wonderful men of the age. One was 64 when I met him and then the latest is a guy who is 70. Well, I dated him online as he lives in another country and I haven’t been able to meet him, but we chatted on skype for over 6 months, and we loved each other. I’m in my early 30’s, I’m a professional woman who is well balanced. I just wanted a story out there to say that not every woman who is going out with a guy old enough to be her father is in search of a sponsor and that there can be true love involved. Something deeper. Can I share my story and be anonymous?” I said sawa, send me something I ...

I am the "7%" This is something we should all read at least once a week!!!!! Make sure you read to the end!!!!!! Written by Regina Brett , 90 years old, of the Plain b Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio To celebrate growing older, I once wrote few lessons life taught me. It is the most requested column I've ever written. 1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good. 2. When in doubt, just take the next small step. 3. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and family will. 4. You don't have to win every argument. Stay true to yourself. 5. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone. 6. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it. 7. Make peace with your past so it won't mess up the present. 8. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about. 9. Take a deep breath every now and then. It calms the mind. 10. Get rid of anything that isn't useful. Clutter weighs you down in many ways....

Jeff Bezos, the “king of online retail,” is one of the most influential entrepreneurs and investors of our time. The founder of Amazon also owns The Washington Post, one of the main investors in Uber, placing it at number 15 of the richest men in the world, with an estimated US $ 38.500 million fortune. We present 10 key aspects of his success: 1. Waiver of security and dare. By 1994, -before Jeff Bezos turned 30 years, could be considered successful by being the youngest vice president of a major investment firm on Wall Street. Bezos received a six-figure salary in dollars, but was determined to follow his dream of creating a company in then new world of electronic commerce. It was a risky decision, but soon generated US $ 610 million in annual sales and had 13 million customers worldwide. 2. Identify opportunities. Much of what makes an outstanding entrepreneur is his ability to identify market opportunities, but above all to seize them. While he was working for DE Shaw & Co. res...

A few weeks back I wrote about the quest for President Uhuru Kenyatta’s successor in central and why it should not derail the Jubilee dream. Over the last two weeks, there has been a lot of talks over a comment made by Kiambu Governor William Kabogo which have been linked, by some, to the scramble for Uhuru’s successor. There are even those who have speculated that the Governor made the comments as his entry point to the race to be Deputy President William Ruto’s running mate in 2022. As politicians gave different interpretations to Governor Kabogo’s comments, it has become increasingly clear that the issue has been misunderstood by many. A lot has been said about the comments since Governor Kabogo uttered them and even after he clarified multiple times thereafter. However, on Saturday, the subject of the debate – Deputy President William Ruto – put everything in perspective as he defended the Governor’s comments. The DP indicated that he was not naive enough to think that he would sit...

Nyamira County Assembly Leader of Minority Jackson Mogusu believes President Uhuru Kenyatta will trounce Cord leader Raila Odinga easily even without the embattled IEBC commissioners in office. Mr Odinga has accused the electoral body of being biased and corrupt and so cannot oversee the 2017 polls. And now Mr Mogusu has bashed the Cord leader arguing that he has ‘sensed’ defeat hence reverting to intimidating the IEBC officials. “I don’t really think Mr Odinga is fighting the IEBC because of alleged working relationship with the government. He has actually sensed defeat in the 2017 polls and that is why he has subjected the commissioners to unwarranted torture,” he said. “He cannot beat President Kenyatta even without the current IEBC as constituted. The President has done exemplary well in initiating development projects across the country among them infrastructure and the economy is stable warranting him a re-election,” he added. Mogusu also made a reference to the ‘tyranny’ of numb...