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THINGS YOU DO THAT SCARE MEN AWAY

Has a guy suddenly disappeared after initially showing interest in wanting to date you? If that scenario seems to happen to you all the time, it could mean you are doing something that is scaring these men away from you.
Below are 8 things you do that scare men away
1. YOU ARE TOO POSSESSIVE
Being possessive can scare men away from you. When a man feels like he’s being restricted from doing the things he loves to do, he will quickly lose interest in the relationship and want out.
2. YOU TALK ABOUT MARRIAGE TOO SOON
Bringing up discussions about marriage very early in a relationship isn’t something you should do as it makes you appear desperate. Get to know him first and gradually bring up the discussion later.
3. YOU ARE TOO JEALOUS
Being too jealous will scare men away from you because it shows you are insecure. Men are attracted to confident and secure women. Stop getting jealous unnecessarily.
4. YOU FIGHT OVER IRRELEVANT THINGS
Fighting over irrelevant things so soon in a relationship will scare him away. While there are legit things you should get mad about, getting mad at him over every little thing will send the wrong signals to him.
5. YOU ARE TOO NEEDY
It’s important you give your man room to breathe. Calling and texting him every minute portrays you as being too needy and this will scare him away from you.
6. YOU DISLIKE HIS FRIENDS
It’s never a good idea to choose his friends for him and it’s even worse when you do this in the early stages of a relationship. When you dislike his friends, you send a message that you won’t let him be with people he likes.
7. YOU ARE TOO DEMANDING
A woman who is too demanding is a turn off for most men. Avoid insisting he does things your own way as you appear too bossy when you do this.
8. EXPECTING HIM TO PAY FOR EVERYTHING
Expecting him to pay for everything might make him think he’s wanted for the money only. Ensure you offer to pay sometimes even if he says no, at least you offered.

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