“People often say, marry someone who makes you happy. And yes, happiness is important. But happiness alone cannot sustain a marriage, because life is not always sunshine. There will be seasons of loss, of uncertainty, of financial struggles, of sickness, of disappointments. That’s why I believe the real wisdom is this: marry someone you can suffer with. Marry someone who won’t run away when things get hard. Someone who will sit with you in the hospital when the night feels endless, or remind you to hope when your dreams seem delayed. Someone who will eat ugali and sukuma with you when times are tough, but also celebrate with you when abundance comes. True love is not just about laughing together—it is about crying together and still choosing each other the next morning. It is about carrying one another when one is too weak to walk. It is about holding the rope together when life pulls in the opposite direction. If you marry only for beauty, it will fade. If you marry only f...
(Read before it’s too late) 1. Women love like cats, not dogs – their affection is conditional, not automatic. 2. A woman will test you more when she feels you slipping, not when she feels secure. 3. Comfort breeds contempt—if she feels you’re too easy to please, she’ll lose interest. 4. Hypergamy is real: she’ll always look at who’s “better” than you, even if she stays. 5. A woman’s loyalty is tied to her options; remove the options, and loyalty becomes clearer. 6. She’ll never love you the way you love her—her love is survival-driven, not sacrificial. 7. The moment you put her above your purpose, she subconsciously devalues you. 8. Female attention is currency; once she knows it’s valuable to you, she rations it. 9. She’ll forgive disrespect from the man she desires, but never boredom from the man she doesn’t. 10. Attraction isn’t negotiated—it’s felt. No amount of logic can force it. 11. A woman never forgets who gave her the strongest emotions, good or bad. 12. She craves leadershi...