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SOME OF COMMON RELATIONSHIP MISTAKES YOU SHOULDN’T MAKE AS A WOMAN

Some mistakes might seem common and ordinary, but what they do in the long-term and the impact they leave would damage even the best of relationships.
These are some common relationship mistakes women make that they shouldn’t.
1. THINKING THE MAN SHOULD DO EVERYTHING
Some women just have this belief that the man should do everything in the relationship, from communication to show of affection; they just believe that the relationship is theirs to enjoy and for the men to work and figure everything out. But is it? I doubt it. Women who make this mistake would find it hard to find a long-lasting and happy relationship.
2. BEING CRITICAL OVER MATTERS THAT AREN’T EVEN IMPORTANT
Stop nagging and complaining about irrelevant things; sometimes, the things a lot of women nag and complain about are just too irrelevant, and this is a big mistake many women are guilty of. Your relationship would be a lot peaceful when you learn to let go of those little things that don’t matter.
3. UNDERMINING WHAT HE DOES FOR YOU
Not appreciating enough what he does for you or undervaluing his roles and efforts are some of the worst mistakes to make as a woman in a relationship. Your man would definitely feel heartbroken when you do this.
4. BEING USED TO HIS LOVE AND AFFECTION
It’s so easy to get used to his love and show of affection, it’s so easy to become too loved and valued that you no longer appreciate it. Yes, women also make this mistake when they have a man that’s just too loving, and this mistake is just as bad as cheating on your man, because you cheat him with your love, affection and emotion.
5. FORGETTING THAT HE ALSO NEEDS LOVE AND AFFECTION
A lot of women love to be loved, they love to be cared for, they want to be valued and they ache for a man that would treat them right, but not many are willing to return the same favour to that man who’s ready to do all these. A lot of women forget to show their men love and affection, and this is wrong.
6. TRYING TO MAKE HIS OWN DECISIONS FOR HIM
You make your decisions for yourself, you make the relationship decisions and you also want to make his own decisions. I won’t even call this a mistake; you are just too self-centred to be in a relationship.
7. BEING RIGHT ABOUT EVERYTHING
Another common relationship mistake women are guilty of is being right about everything, and this attitude could make your relationship divisive. When you believe you are right about everything, and your opinion is the best, you could cause a lot of friction between you and your partner. This attitude is a divisive one and should be far from your relationship.
8. COMPARISONS
Show me a woman who doesn’t compare her man or her relationship to another, and I’d show you one of the greatest women to have ever lived. Many women are guilty of this and they don’t understand how much this would affect their relationship.
Are you guilty of these mistakes as a woman? It isn’t too late to turn a new leaf; these mistakes might seem ordinary, but they aren’t.
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