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ABOUT TO DATE OR MARRY? HERE’S WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW!

You’ve probably heard it before that

you should look very well before you

get into a relationship or marriage

because if you don’t, you just may

end up settling with the wrong

person. Well, I have to say I agree

with this statement or believe very

much, however, as much as you have

that mindset, it’s also important to

know that there isn’t one person

who is perfect.

I am not saying you should settle for

less than you want in your ideal

man, however, do not live in a

fantasy world where you think that

there are people without a flaw

because you’ll just end up getting

disappointed.

What you do not see in the one man,

you’ll likely see in another. It’s

possible that this man doesn’t drink

or smoke or womanise, but could be

a woman beater or have one nasty

attitude or habit. It is also possible

he isn’t a woman beater, but he is

secretive or puts work ahead of his

loved ones. The same also applies to

women – she may not cheat or lie,

but she is probably an alcoholic or

has some dark part to her you

wouldn’t know about until it’s late.

But even then, do not run away

from the reality you face, embrace it

because if you run, you’ll probably

run into worse arms or someone

with similar issues.

No one is perfect, what you should

do is look for a man or woman

whose flaws you can deal with, and

be with them, while trying to help

them be better as a person.

Marriage and dating is never rosy

all through. You’ll have issues, and

you’ll fight because you’re not dating

a flawless god, you just hold on, and

try to make your relationship keep

working.

Having this sort of mindset is what

will help you go into a very happy

and stable relationship. It isn’t

perfect anywhere; not even in the

relationship of that friend or

relative that inspired you to set your

high standards.

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