Attention is an important part of a relationship; it’s a positive sign when partners give each other attention, and when there’s a lack of attention, the relationship suffers.
These are some signs your partner is seeking attention from you and you mustn’t ignore them.
1. THROUGH COMPLAINS
As odd as it sounds, a lot of people show they need attention through complain; when a partner complains about something they feel is lacking, it shows they need attention there. For example, if your partner complains you spend too much time with your friends, it means your partner feels you are giving your friends more attention.
2. CALLS AND TEXTS
If your partner tends to call you or text you too many times in a day, it’s because that partner wants more of your attention.
3. VIA CERTAIN QUESTIONS
Certain questions your partner asks you is because they need your attention. Questions regarding how your partner looks and whether you can spend more time with them also show they need your attention.
4. WHEN THEY MISS YOU
When your partner shows you signs that they are missing you, it’s also a sign that they need your attention.
Giving your partner attention is a sign that you are interested in them, and it gives your partner a certain aura of confidence. When your partner shows these signs, it’s because they need your attention.
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