By Dr Paul Bundi Human beings are endowed with remarkable resilience, which can only be broken when they choose to give up. Says Viktor Frankl in his seminal book, Man's Search for Meaning; ''it is a peculiarity of man that he can only live by looking to the future-sub specie aeternitatis. And this is his salvation in thd most difficult moments of his existence, although he sometimes has to force his mind to the task.'' Man's life is primarily driven by the desire for future, the unshakable belief that the future holds promise. We invariably cease to live when we think we have hit a dead end, or that there's nothing more to be had by living. Theoretically, there is no limit to man's achievement, and that is what drives men to wake up and strive day after day. The opposite is spiritual, psychological death, which manifests way ahead of physical death. Lesson? Losing today doesn't mean losing always. You can lose 10 times and win the 11th time. Or, you...
Every woman desires to have a loving relationship that she can be proud of, these tips below would definitely help every woman have a wonderful relationship.
1. Don’t try to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be.
2. Every woman should know that if a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
3. If a man isn’t ready to listen to you and make any effort to meet your needs, don’t fully commit to him.
4. Look for someone who complements you and not someone who completes you.
5. Never be in a hurry to share too much of yourself and things about yourself. Trust takes time to develop.6. If your relationship isn’t good, do not stay because you think it would be better. You might regret that years after.
7. When starting a relationship, slower is always better.8. Don’t try to change your man because it just doesn’t work. The only person you can change is yourself.
9. Nothing can make your man stay if he doesn’t want you.
10. Never try to control your partner, the only person you can control in a relationship is you.11. Never make your man feel more important than you or less important than you.
12. Just because you love him and want him to stay doesn’t mean you should always compromise. Compromise should be two-way in a relationship.
13. Never be in a hurry to start a new relationship after a breakup. Give yourself time to heal so you don’t carry any baggage from your previous relationship into your new relationship.
14. Never date a man who has a girlfriend. If he cheats on his girlfriend with you, he will also cheat on you.
15. Avoid men who have lots of children with different women. If he didn’t treat the other women better, what makes you think he would treat you better?
Have a wonderful relationship ladies.
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