By Dr Paul Bundi Human beings are endowed with remarkable resilience, which can only be broken when they choose to give up. Says Viktor Frankl in his seminal book, Man's Search for Meaning; ''it is a peculiarity of man that he can only live by looking to the future-sub specie aeternitatis. And this is his salvation in thd most difficult moments of his existence, although he sometimes has to force his mind to the task.'' Man's life is primarily driven by the desire for future, the unshakable belief that the future holds promise. We invariably cease to live when we think we have hit a dead end, or that there's nothing more to be had by living. Theoretically, there is no limit to man's achievement, and that is what drives men to wake up and strive day after day. The opposite is spiritual, psychological death, which manifests way ahead of physical death. Lesson? Losing today doesn't mean losing always. You can lose 10 times and win the 11th time. Or, you...
To melt by just looking in his eyes,
To let your heart dance to the sound of his laugh,
To hold his hand and never take for granted how it feels when he holds you with both,
To take the chance of being wounded because you will not give him up freely,
To have him consume your every dream, your every thought, your every waking moment,
To be thankful for another night of falling asleep in his arms,and another day of waking up with him in your life,
To get lost at the very thought of him, only to find your way back when he sneaks up from behind and kisses you,
To let him know just how incomplete you would be without him, and how wonderful he is by just being who he is,
To never let anything he accomplishes or achieves ever go unnoticed,
To tell him you love him even more than you did the day before,
To let your shoulder be his support when he has a bad day,
To make sure you have food and beer ready for every game or race, then holler and cheer for his favorite team or driver because you love to watch it with him,
To Learn that sometimes you have to sacrifice your happiness in return for his,
To have passion with every kiss and mind blowing moves with each intimate moment,
To never make him choose between his friends AND you,
To take his breath away at least once a day by doing something unexpected,
To always apologize when you’re the one in the wrong,
To miss him just as much when he’s not in the same room with you as you would if he were gone for a few months,
To always shower him with nice compliments,
To never let two wrongs make a right,
To let him captivate you by his own views and opinions, AND
To ALWAYS love him with all you have, with all you are and everything you become.
To let your heart dance to the sound of his laugh,
To hold his hand and never take for granted how it feels when he holds you with both,
To take the chance of being wounded because you will not give him up freely,
To have him consume your every dream, your every thought, your every waking moment,
To be thankful for another night of falling asleep in his arms,and another day of waking up with him in your life,
To get lost at the very thought of him, only to find your way back when he sneaks up from behind and kisses you,
To let him know just how incomplete you would be without him, and how wonderful he is by just being who he is,
To never let anything he accomplishes or achieves ever go unnoticed,
To tell him you love him even more than you did the day before,
To let your shoulder be his support when he has a bad day,
To make sure you have food and beer ready for every game or race, then holler and cheer for his favorite team or driver because you love to watch it with him,
To Learn that sometimes you have to sacrifice your happiness in return for his,
To have passion with every kiss and mind blowing moves with each intimate moment,
To never make him choose between his friends AND you,
To take his breath away at least once a day by doing something unexpected,
To always apologize when you’re the one in the wrong,
To miss him just as much when he’s not in the same room with you as you would if he were gone for a few months,
To always shower him with nice compliments,
To never let two wrongs make a right,
To let him captivate you by his own views and opinions, AND
To ALWAYS love him with all you have, with all you are and everything you become.
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