By Dr Paul Bundi Human beings are endowed with remarkable resilience, which can only be broken when they choose to give up. Says Viktor Frankl in his seminal book, Man's Search for Meaning; ''it is a peculiarity of man that he can only live by looking to the future-sub specie aeternitatis. And this is his salvation in thd most difficult moments of his existence, although he sometimes has to force his mind to the task.'' Man's life is primarily driven by the desire for future, the unshakable belief that the future holds promise. We invariably cease to live when we think we have hit a dead end, or that there's nothing more to be had by living. Theoretically, there is no limit to man's achievement, and that is what drives men to wake up and strive day after day. The opposite is spiritual, psychological death, which manifests way ahead of physical death. Lesson? Losing today doesn't mean losing always. You can lose 10 times and win the 11th time. Or, you...
1. Thinking About The Ex: If you are suddenly reminded about your ex, it is best for your boyfriend not be aware of it. This thought about your ex flame will only pierce his heart.
2. When You Miss His Family Functions: If you want to miss his family functions, never hesitate to tell him the truth as to why you want to bunk it. Being honest with your man is the key to a better relationship. Lying to him and skipping all those functions will only crush him.
3. When You Discuss Your Matters With Friends: One of the things your boyfriend should never know is the moments you spend with your girl friends, updating them on your sex life. No man appreciates his woman telling the entire universe about his performance in bed. It is something you should never let your man know about.
4. Snitching Through His Phone: Every woman has this nasty habit of going through their man’s phone at every little chance they get. This is a bad habit and you should never tell your boyfriend what you do, as it could prop up problems related to trust.
5. Stalking: If you have a habit of stalking guys, it is healthy as long as there is no sign of cheating on your man. Even so, this is one thing your boyfriend should never know as it can hurt him and crush his heart to a million pieces.
2. When You Miss His Family Functions: If you want to miss his family functions, never hesitate to tell him the truth as to why you want to bunk it. Being honest with your man is the key to a better relationship. Lying to him and skipping all those functions will only crush him.
3. When You Discuss Your Matters With Friends: One of the things your boyfriend should never know is the moments you spend with your girl friends, updating them on your sex life. No man appreciates his woman telling the entire universe about his performance in bed. It is something you should never let your man know about.
4. Snitching Through His Phone: Every woman has this nasty habit of going through their man’s phone at every little chance they get. This is a bad habit and you should never tell your boyfriend what you do, as it could prop up problems related to trust.
5. Stalking: If you have a habit of stalking guys, it is healthy as long as there is no sign of cheating on your man. Even so, this is one thing your boyfriend should never know as it can hurt him and crush his heart to a million pieces.
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