By Dr Paul Bundi Human beings are endowed with remarkable resilience, which can only be broken when they choose to give up. Says Viktor Frankl in his seminal book, Man's Search for Meaning; ''it is a peculiarity of man that he can only live by looking to the future-sub specie aeternitatis. And this is his salvation in thd most difficult moments of his existence, although he sometimes has to force his mind to the task.'' Man's life is primarily driven by the desire for future, the unshakable belief that the future holds promise. We invariably cease to live when we think we have hit a dead end, or that there's nothing more to be had by living. Theoretically, there is no limit to man's achievement, and that is what drives men to wake up and strive day after day. The opposite is spiritual, psychological death, which manifests way ahead of physical death. Lesson? Losing today doesn't mean losing always. You can lose 10 times and win the 11th time. Or, you...
It takes two people to work on a relationship and if one lusts over someone else there isn’t anything you can do because everyone thinks it’s greener on the other side everything in life you have to work on it. Why not to enjoy the happy time-Let value the laughs not the pain and hurts which I don’t deserved in trouble relationship. Sometimes we forget that we are just humans, nobody is perfect and if we really love each other, we have to communicate and work things out. Nowadays, both the man, and the woman, need to learn to communicate better and stop worrying about what this one has, looks at, walk, wear…I can go on and on. If we stop seeing and focusing on other’s faults.maybe then we would see ours more clearly…that is if you are willing to accept your own shortcomings.
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