By Dr Paul Bundi Human beings are endowed with remarkable resilience, which can only be broken when they choose to give up. Says Viktor Frankl in his seminal book, Man's Search for Meaning; ''it is a peculiarity of man that he can only live by looking to the future-sub specie aeternitatis. And this is his salvation in thd most difficult moments of his existence, although he sometimes has to force his mind to the task.'' Man's life is primarily driven by the desire for future, the unshakable belief that the future holds promise. We invariably cease to live when we think we have hit a dead end, or that there's nothing more to be had by living. Theoretically, there is no limit to man's achievement, and that is what drives men to wake up and strive day after day. The opposite is spiritual, psychological death, which manifests way ahead of physical death. Lesson? Losing today doesn't mean losing always. You can lose 10 times and win the 11th time. Or, you...
No single man ever wants a 'crazy' wife! It is only guys who want a 'crazy' girlfriend, so don't be deceived. A guy who wants you to party hard every weekend, expose your boobs, wear skimpy clothes, loud make ups and get down with 11 bottles of beer while he is on 15 will NEVER marry you! A guy who wants sex everywhere with you when he is not yet married to you will see you as a whore when the time for marriage eventually comes... Have you ever wondered why most of these crazy guys go for the 'timid' and 'local' looking girls when it comes to marriage but dump the sexy, sassy and gorgeous looking ones??? A man wants more than beauty for marriage! Those boobs you are flaunting everywhere will eventually sag someday so invest in yourself! A man really wants a place he can call home, he wants a woman who is modest and can take care of his parents, one with whom the children can confide in, the one he can take major decisions with and tell all his fears. He wants a wife, mother and sister all in one... I'm not saying that looking good is bad. In fact looking good is good business, but you have got to look beyond that and pay more attention to things that keep a home. If you truly want to attract a decent man, please be decent yourself and do not let any man use you to pass time! ...... May GOD grant you the wisdom to be the woman a man truly needs!
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