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Things you need to know about love

Trying to persuade anybody to love you is like trying to teach a pig to appreciate beauty and cleanliness. It’s impossible and pointless. You are too precious to beg for love. A man who truly loves you will pursue you and not treat you like trash. Don't waste your valuable time trying to convince, persuade, or beg anyone to love you. Any man that takes you for granted will eventually take advantage of you. There are people who will never love you no matter how much love you show them, and that’s okay. Their rejection of you doesn’t mean there is something wrong about you. You can’t change anyone’s opinion of you, but you can prevent their opinion from changing you. Let your head lead your heart out of a toxic relationship. Never grant a man access to your heart when you know he takes it for granted. A man who truly loves you will die for you not seek to harm you. Jesus knows you are worth dying for, and that settles it. Do yourself a favor. Deal with the pain of a breakup now than face a lifetime of regret, abuse and the excruciating pain of divorce. You can't ignore this warning and not get hurt. Always be where you are celebrated and honored not where you are just tolerated.

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