Trying to persuade anybody to love you is like trying to teach a pig to appreciate beauty and cleanliness. It’s impossible and pointless. You are too precious to beg for love. A man who truly loves you will pursue you and not treat you like trash. Don't waste your valuable time trying to convince, persuade, or beg anyone to love you. Any man that takes you for granted will eventually take advantage of you. There are people who will never love you no matter how much love you show them, and that’s okay. Their rejection of you doesn’t mean there is something wrong about you. You can’t change anyone’s opinion of you, but you can prevent their opinion from changing you. Let your head lead your heart out of a toxic relationship. Never grant a man access to your heart when you know he takes it for granted. A man who truly loves you will die for you not seek to harm you. Jesus knows you are worth dying for, and that settles it. Do yourself a favor. Deal with the pain of a breakup now than face a lifetime of regret, abuse and the excruciating pain of divorce. You can't ignore this warning and not get hurt. Always be where you are celebrated and honored not where you are just tolerated.
By Strive Masiyiwa A few weeks ago I went to the doctor. I will tell you what he said about my health at the end, but first read this: Twenty years ago, I arranged to meet a well-known British international businessman who invested a lot in Africa at the time. We agreed to meet for dinner at a leading hotel in London. After a good meeting, we started to walk out of the restaurant when he suddenly collapsed in the lobby. There was total pandemonium as they rushed to get medical assistance. Being London, an ambulance arrived in minutes. I jumped in the back with him as paramedics wrestled to keep him alive. He had had a heart attack and had to have triple bypass heart surgery. Sadly he died a few weeks later. He hadn't been sick and his sudden death surprised everyone. And yet as I reflected on it, and later discussed it with a doctor friend who knew him, I realized he was very laid back about his health despite having a hectic business life. Even during our dinner...
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